Isn’t this is the ultimate life question? The answer will be determined to a large extent by what one values. Although ones values and priorities can be powerful motivators, it isn’t always easy to get what one wants. Sometimes sacrifice of some other desired thing is required in order to attain what is REALLY desired. Donald Latumahina lists 3 essential ingredients to getting what one wants out of life:
– Strong Motivation…..you have to know why you want something; this is where values come in. Motivation is required to push through that which is difficult to get to what you desire.
- Persistence…..failure is assumed, but if one gives up after a failure, that which one values will not be attainable. Here again, strong motivation in the first place helps with dealing with failure.
- Willingness to Learn and Change the Approach…..those failures provide opportunities to learn. Trial and error is how some of the most important inventions have been created. Willingness to change may involve letting go of some pride and allow oneself to not be an expert. Most of all, avoid doing things the same way repeatedly.
If you are at a point where you KNOW what you REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want but don’t know how to get it, OR if you don’t know what you want and want to form an extraordinary relationship that will have as its goal to help you determine what you REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want, Life Coaching can help you with this. I am currently accepting new clients and am passionate about helping people live their lives with INTENTION and ACTIVATION! Call me at 802.373.3547 if you would like to discuss coaching and to arrange a complementary coaching session.
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